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Domestic violence is about control.

While physical violence may be the first thing that comes to mind when someone pictures domestic violence, abusers exert their control in many other ways.

Types of Abuse
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Everyone deserves a healthy relationship.

The Illinois Domestic Violence Hotline is confidential, available 24 hours a day, and can help you no matter what language you speak.

Call or text the hotline now at 877-863-6338.

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Domestic Violence and Intimate Partner Violence doesn’t discriminate based on age, race, sexual orientation, income, education, ability, or gender — anyone can suffer from abuse.

Defining DV & IPV
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Types of harm that occur are not always physical; they can also be emotional, psychological, verbal, financial, economic, social, reproductive, institutional, and health-based.

Types of Abuse
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A safety plan can help you stay safer even when you think you won’t leave and even if your abuser doesn’t live with you. If you are concerned about your safety, develop a safety plan.

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While the cost to society might pale in comparison to individual traumatic experiences, it’s important to note that the effects of domestic violence extend far beyond the home.

Social Impacts
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Love shouldn’t hurt.

If you’re unsure if your partner is being abusive, take this short quiz to help think about past experiences.

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Thousands of domestic violence cases are reported every year in Illinois. Thousands also aren’t.

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Many people experencing domestic violence don’t even realize the they are in a controlling relationship.

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Survivors aren’t in this alone – you can help. Learn how you can support efforts in ending domestic violence.

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