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Silence protects abuse. Speak out.

Call or text 877-863-6338 to talk.

FACT.

Domestic violence is about control.

While physical violence may be the first thing that comes to mind when someone pictures domestic violence, abusers exert their control in many other ways.

Types of Abuse
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Domestic violence
hurts children and teens.

Children who experience violence in the home are more likely to accept or choose violence in relationships later in life.

74% MORE
LIKELY TO


COMMIT A
VIOLENT CRIME

50% MORE
LIKELY TO

ABUSE DRUGS
& ALCOHOL

7.4X MORE
LIKELY TO

ATTEMPT
SUICIDE

Experiencing Childhood Domestic Violence in the home is considered a tenant of the ACEs test and is therefore a trauma for a child.

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#CallForChange

Everyone deserves a healthy relationship.

The Illinois Domestic Violence Hotline is confidential, available 24 hours a day, and can help you no matter what language you speak.

Call or text the hotline anytime, at 877-863-6338

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Domestic Violence, Partner and Family Violence doesn’t discriminate based on age, race, sexual orientation, income, education, ability, or gender — anyone can suffer from abuse.

Defining DV & IPV

Types of harm that occur are not always physical; they can also be emotional, psychological, verbal, financial, economic, social, reproductive, institutional, and health-based.

Types of Abuse

A safety plan can help you and your family stay safer even if you aren’t sure you need it yet. If you are concerned about your safety, develop a safety plan.

Safety Planning

The effects of domestic violence extend far beyond the home. Children who witness domestic violence have increased stress, anxiety, and emotional challenges.

Social Impacts
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Love
shouldn’t hurt.

If you’re unsure if someone is being abusive, take this short quiz to consider past experiences.

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The Illinois Domestic Violence Hotline is confidential, available 24 hours a day, and can help you no matter what language you speak or how old you are.

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